This word reminds me of an old joke or remark coming from my parents
back then. “Adopted kalang”, they would say when the mood is light or fitting.
I never understood the concept of why “being adopted” is associated with “being
different”. When I was young and naïve,
the word “ampon” sounded so harsh to the ears. Even up until now, when someone
uses the word “ampon” or the remark “ampon kalang”, it sounds very degrading
(and rather offensive).
The stigma present in adoption today runs rampant and I believe that
parents must educate their children to change this mindset.
I believe that adoption is /not/ a negative thing at all. Rather, I
see adoption as a calling for selected parents who have a heart big enough to
take in a child whom they are not related to. Not everyone has the courage to
adopt. The very concept of adoption is big and life-changing. Parents who
stepped up opened a new path in their lives.
While it is true that “it really depends on our circumstances”,
regardless, we should learn to respect and appreciate adoption. Adopted or not,
adoptive parents or a regular parent, we shouldn’t pick sides and draw lines
because of labels. We are all different. And these children and parents just
had a special way of meeting each other.
It’s a matter of perspective. Let’s open our minds and hearts to
appreciate more things in life. Support
, understand and appreciate adoption today.
By: Alyssa
Acedillo
No comments:
Post a Comment